There are some people in our lives who bring constant smiles, brighten our days, bring a xing in the voice and initiate feelings that do not fit into words. They bring out the best in us, we keep trying to be our best self in front of them not intentionally, but we are happy to do things we would have never done. And then, those someones realize the selflessness and start taking it for granted, behave in the wierdest possible ways, hurt, shatter you into pieces and once we gather it all together shatter you yet again ..... Ooops, i wavered to the darker side.. Keeping that aside focusing on the beautiful things..
How many times we have disliked a food item initially but gradually as we develop a taste for it, the liking for it grows and then we just get fond of it. Sounds strange that i am comparing food to people, but somehow food is also so important, at least for me.. the foodgasms, the moment I eat/drink something delicious I heave a sigh, a sigh of satisfaction, a sigh of divinity. The people who know me (like seriously know me) have an idea of what I am talking about when I talk about good food/drinks. Similarly we have people in our lives, some are an instant connect, just a small conversation and it clicks, you have been matched, wavelength matched. The conversations are generally spunky, with a lot of laughter and jokes and similar empathy on the society affairs. And then are those special someone's who get closer to you with time, like alcohol, take time to get you high but when it does its a ride. Somewhere down the line, such people stay put in our lives, forever, till eternity. We get angry, fight, have altercations, but ultimately we are back to being with each other because the thread that binds us has been developed with time, nurtured with lots of love and emotions and it creates an unbreakable connection that lasts for many lives.
I personally have seen such a bond where it was something common, nothing special and gradually it became strong, stronger and strongest. Every thing about the other person became special, not out of this world, but something that brought peace, feeling of being home, that warm cozy space where everything is comfortable, words and silence both are excellent means of communication, every thing is understood. Last second might have been really really bad, but if the next second shows any positive/ normal activity the bad goes in the background and one strives to make it more beautiful for the other person, strives to keep the other person in their comfort zones, as the only thing that matters is their smile, their laughter, their happiness. Mere mention or thought of them bombards one with all beautiful emotions one by one. Sometimes some people are a cause of happiness, whether they are physically there or not, because the the threads that bind them are seasoned with so many strong emotions that they are rendered unbreakable eternally...
How many times we have disliked a food item initially but gradually as we develop a taste for it, the liking for it grows and then we just get fond of it. Sounds strange that i am comparing food to people, but somehow food is also so important, at least for me.. the foodgasms, the moment I eat/drink something delicious I heave a sigh, a sigh of satisfaction, a sigh of divinity. The people who know me (like seriously know me) have an idea of what I am talking about when I talk about good food/drinks. Similarly we have people in our lives, some are an instant connect, just a small conversation and it clicks, you have been matched, wavelength matched. The conversations are generally spunky, with a lot of laughter and jokes and similar empathy on the society affairs. And then are those special someone's who get closer to you with time, like alcohol, take time to get you high but when it does its a ride. Somewhere down the line, such people stay put in our lives, forever, till eternity. We get angry, fight, have altercations, but ultimately we are back to being with each other because the thread that binds us has been developed with time, nurtured with lots of love and emotions and it creates an unbreakable connection that lasts for many lives.
I personally have seen such a bond where it was something common, nothing special and gradually it became strong, stronger and strongest. Every thing about the other person became special, not out of this world, but something that brought peace, feeling of being home, that warm cozy space where everything is comfortable, words and silence both are excellent means of communication, every thing is understood. Last second might have been really really bad, but if the next second shows any positive/ normal activity the bad goes in the background and one strives to make it more beautiful for the other person, strives to keep the other person in their comfort zones, as the only thing that matters is their smile, their laughter, their happiness. Mere mention or thought of them bombards one with all beautiful emotions one by one. Sometimes some people are a cause of happiness, whether they are physically there or not, because the the threads that bind them are seasoned with so many strong emotions that they are rendered unbreakable eternally...
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