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Someone!!!

There are some people in our lives who bring constant smiles, brighten our days, bring a xing in the voice and initiate feelings that do not fit into words. They bring out the best in us, we keep trying to be our best self in front of them not intentionally, but we are happy to do things we would have never done. And then, those someones realize the selflessness and start taking it for granted, behave in the wierdest possible ways, hurt, shatter you into pieces and once we gather it all together shatter you yet again ..... Ooops, i wavered to the darker side.. Keeping that aside focusing on the beautiful things.. How many times we have disliked a food item initially but gradually as we develop a taste for it, the liking for it grows and then we just get fond of it. Sounds strange that i am comparing food to people, but somehow food is also so important, at least for me.. the foodgasms, the moment I eat/drink something delicious I heave a sigh, a sigh of satisfaction, a sigh of divini...

All the show shaa in an Indian wedding!

Social media, YouTube is all filled up with videos of this lavish wedding where the whos who (although it doesn't really matter) showed up. I might seem a cynic when I say this but it was an ugly display of wealth, but but if I got the moolaah i will spend it so I should not be judging it. Will I also look for something like this? Mmmmm, if I draw comparisons with the functions held in my own family, we don't fare well either when even the cars for the baraat of my brothers' wedding had to be colour co-ordinated to only SUVs including AC coach buses that were practically empty as we had so fucking many SUVs, and the bride's family has kept fields vacant that season as we needed parkings, mind you parkings for cars we couldn't give a number because they were actually too many. This is just one tad bit of example. And this is not limited to wedding, my grandmother's funeral ceremony feast had a crowd of more than 3000 people. Some things are so impinged in our mi...